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Orgasm Help
Paul Freegale

I've heard from more and more of our women readers about this. I have found it to be surprising, but life still has its little surprises. It is becoming more and more common that men are having problems achieving an orgasm. For so many years we heard the press batter women and the fact that they can't orgasm. Now, it seems the other way around. Don't worry ladies, I am here. I will tell you how to make your man have an orgasm again. It isn't that hard really. First, this is probably the number one cause. You need to see how much porn your man is watching. This won't be easy.

You need to determine how much he is masturbating when you aren't around. If you find a lot of porn on your credit card or on his computer, that is the problem. What he is doing is saving up all of his energy for porn. This is fairly common. I wouldn't be too upset unless he is looking at gay midgets. A lot of times when a relationship goes stale, men turn to porn. Maybe you haven't been turning him on like you used to.

Here is the solution.

While he is away, look at some of the porn he is watching. See what is turning him on. Maybe he is into something kinky that you never knew before. Go out and buy some lingerie. Surprise him one night by doing what he sees in the porn movies. Maybe we is into anal and you never tried that. If that is the case, he will orgasm in no time to your never touched before ass. Make sure that you are playing on what he likes to see. If he likes seeing women with sex toys, let him watch you masturbate. I'm sure that you would agree that you would rather him watch you, then watch some other woman. Maybe you are nagging him too much. When you nag the hell out of him, it probably reminds him of his mom. If you are nagging him about everything under the sun, then there is a problem.

The solution:

Shut the fuck up. Sorry to be so rude, but that is how us men think. He get tired of all the bitching and moaning. If you don't like us, leave. Don't make our lives hell. Even if he doesn't wipe his shoes before he comes in the house every day, bitching won't get it done. Maybe work has got him down. Is he working a ton of hours? If so, then that is the problem. He is probably stressed out and too tired to have sex. Yes, even men have reasons why they don't want to have sex.

Solution:

Tell him to work less. Having everything brand new isn't that big of a deal. If it is, get a part time job yourself. Don't run your man into the grave over money. Something bad has happened. Maybe he had a death in the family or had some recent emotional trigger. You women love that word emotional trigger. Something might be making him feel this way. If someone recently died, I would ask why are you pressuring him to perform? He probably doesn't even want to have sex. If your main concern is to get laid, you are being selfish. You are sounding like a man.

Solution:

Allow him to get his life straightened out. Don't force him back into sex. If he did this to you, you would be upset. Allow him time to get over whatever is at hand. If he doesn't, you need to suggest that he gets help. You might have to tell him that if he doesn't get any help that you will leave him. Hey, it sounds bad, but you don't want to spend the rest of your life with a basket case. Diet. Yes, this can affect if a person has an orgasm. Too much caffeine can delay an orgasm. If have went through periods where I drank too much coffee and thought I would never orgasm.

Solution:

Get him off the Java. A cup in the morning isn't going to hurt. A cup in the evening for pep is also okay. But if he is chugging it down like he is at an AA meeting, he has a problem. Too much alcohol can go this too. If he is always drunk as a skunk, you already know what the problem is. If he is drinking more than you can count each day, he has a drinking problem. I would tell him to get some help or to move on out. You don't need to be with a drunk.

As you can see ladies, there are a lot of reasons why your man can't orgasm. You need to talk to him about it and let him know that you care. If it happens all the time, then you need to take it seriously. If it only happens every now and then, no need to worry. This happens to most of us men from time to time.

 

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